Who Carries You When Grief Becomes Too Heavy?

Who Carries You When Grief Becomes Too Heavy?

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted

    and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:18 NIV

The Mountain of Grief

Grief is like a vast mountain, with boulders of memory behind and jagged rocks stretching ahead. But God is there.

It's okay to pause, to catch your breath in the shadow of His wings. You don't have to rush or strive in your own strength. God invites you to lean on Him.

Pausing in the Shadow of His Wings

Yes, this journey is hard. But trusting God provides hope. Don’t give up.

The Hope Found in Trusting God

You are not alone in your pain. God sees your heart, and He draws near to the brokenhearted. His gentle hands heal.

Allow God to lift you over the boulders and guard your steps. His arms never tire, and his love never fades.

Carried by Unfailing Arms

Keep climbing this mountain. With God’s help, you can heal. In his embrace, you will find the strength to rise one step at a time. His compassion is more than enough for your journey.

Steps Toward Healing in His Embrace

Lean on God and keep walking.

Prayer for you:

Father God, sometimes our pain is overwhelming, and we want to escape it. But there is healing in your presence, and we are grateful that there is healing in Your presence. You know our hearts, and You provide the strength we need to take more steps in our healing journey. Thank you for Your mercy and Your love. Amen.

For other grief resources, see the ​Grief Resource page​ on my website. Also, I have written a book, ​Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope​, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

No Bowling Balls, But Your Robot Vacuum Is Fine

No Bowling Balls, But Your Robot Vacuum Is Fine

I’ve flown three times in the last year, which included my adventure with TSA and the protein powder. You can read that story here.

When I learned that there was a TSA app that might give me the inside info for my next flight, I was all over that. Maybe I could avoid getting patted down again.

And down the rabbit hole I went, opening the list of what I can bring. I was thinking twenty to thirty items on their list.

Oh, foolish me. There are almost two hundred. I think.  I didn’t count.

Did you know you can take artificial skeleton bones in your carry-on bag and your checked bag?

Love the Lanes?

No bowling balls or bowling pins in your carry-on bag. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anybody try to bring on a bowling ball or bowling pins. Maybe I need to fly more.

Speaking of common sense (or Captain Obvious), dynamite is out both for your carry-on and your checked bags. Same for fireworks.

And don’t let your kids bring a foam toy sword in their carry-on bag. Do they hope that cuts down on sibling skirmishes?

Waiting On Burgers

No hoverboards. Hummus is OK, but ice picks are not. No word on cheeseburgers.

You can’t take a kirpan in your carry-on bag even though it’s considered an instrument of mercy, grace, empathy, and goodwill. It still looks like a sharp dagger.

No realistic replicas of explosives in your carry-on or your checked bags. Rocks are OK.

You can carry on your vacuum robot, but don’t even think about bringing the airbag out of your vehicle.

Inviting Rosie

I did notice there was no comment about protein powder. I’m flying in a few months, but I’m considering skipping the protein powder and bringing along Rosie the robot vacuum instead.

TSA says she’s safer than I am with a scoop of whey.

Will I Ever Feel Joy Again?

Will I Ever Feel Joy Again?

I remember my affliction and my wandering,

the bitterness and the gall…

my soul is downcast within me.

Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope:

Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,

for his compassions never fail.

They are new every morning;

great is your faithfulness. 

Lamentations 3:19-23

In times of grief, when the weight of loss is heaviest, we may think we will never heal. Will we ever let joy fill our steps?
Yes, because God never leaves us.
Hope- the confidence that our loss does not destroy us - heals us.

Hope Heals

God’s peace is a balm to heal our wounds. Allow His love to cascade over each wound like a warm shower, cleansing and restoring. He will bring newness to our hearts and hope to our souls.

He offers His hand, so that, together, we can walk until we can skip. Then we skip like children until we can run. Then we will run together through meadows of soft grass and singing birds.

Dancing in New Life

God offers the joy of dancing in the rain, and singing with voices blended in joy.

He asks us to trust that He will heal. In Him, we will love again. We will laugh and sing and embrace life.

Hope is not wishful thinking, but confident assurance that God’s compassions never fail. His mercy won’t disappoint us. Those are new every morning.

God’s Mercy Brings Hope

God’s love never leaves us. Never.

Trust Him.

Prayer Hope in Grief

Heavenly Father, You understand the pain of grief so well. Yet your mercy and kindness reach out to us to bring healing and new life. Thank you for your compassion and promises of joy and strength. Help us trust you in every moment, for You are worthy of our hope. Amen.

For other grief resources, see the ​Grief Resource page​ on my website. Also, I have written a book, ​Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope​, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

Can One Small Step Lead to Joy Again?

Can One Small Step Lead to Joy Again?

Lord, you are my strength and fortress, my refuge in the day of trouble!

Jer 16:9 NLT

One day early in my grief, I cried to God: "Today I hurt. A piece of me wants to run far away, to hide in a deep cave, to ignore all my responsibilities, to let someone else care for me."

God gave me answers that helped me in my pain. Those may help you in yours as well.

You need to take only one step today, not climb a mountain. You don’t have to plant your flag in the peak.

God’s Invitation to Rest

Rest for a bit at the edge of the path. Let tears come if they will.

God is your strength and your love. And He will wait for you.

The pain will never stop. It will fade. Don’t worry about how long the process will take. Think of one step.

One step into the light. Into joy. Into a future that is filled with love and kindness.

Rest for a bit with the Lord. Let His music of comfort and healing fill you. His strength will carry you today.

Why One Step Is Enough

One step forward. Just one. You don’t have to win the marathon.

You only need to take one step.

A Prayer for Strength in Grief

Father God, your strength is enough to heal the pain of grief and loss. Help Your loved ones step into Your light and rest in Your love. This process takes time, but You promise never to leave us. We are grateful for your sure presence. Amen.

For additional Christian grief resources, see the Grief Support page on my website. I have also written a book, Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

Are You Carrying Wounds God Wants to Heal?

Are You Carrying Wounds God Wants to Heal?

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted

    and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:18 NIV

God is with those grieving loved ones. He will heal your wounds, give you His presence, and never leave you.

Of course, you hurt. Grief wounds the soul. Loss mutilates peace.

How Does God Heal a Broken Heart?

Listen to God’s voice. His words pierce the pain. Healing happens as He pours His love and restoration into your wounds like a healing salve.

Pain is not evil, but only a sign of a wound. You have lost a part of yourself. Where the two were one, one was torn away. 

Your wounds paralyze you at times. But God will heal you. He promises newness and transformation.

God will never leave you. You will never be separated from God.

How to Rest in God’s Embrace

Rest in Him. Lay your head on God’s chest. Feel His arms holding you into a warm embrace.

He is with you always, to the end of the age.

Always.

A Prayer for the Brokenhearted

Dear Lord, thank You for Your promises to us. We ask for healing even as pain rolls over our minds and bodies. We ask for Your mercy and Your strength to help us. In Jesus name, amen.

For additional grief resources, see the Grief Support page on my website. I have also written a book, Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

"Escape: A Beyond the Last Breath Story" by Kathy Brasby, featuring a young boy sitting alone in a dark, blue-lit cave.

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