Step Through the Narrow Gate of Grief: Christ’s Peace in Your Deepest Trials

Step Through the Narrow Gate of Grief: Christ’s Peace in Your Deepest Trials

I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.

John 16:33 (NIV)

The Narrow Gate of Grief

This narrow gate before you – the one covered with the thorns of grief and pain – looks impossible to pass. You may long for an easier way, but for now, this is the way in front of you.

Step Through

The gate is narrow and prickly. Step through it.

The road is rocky and the wind whips your face, slicing your cheeks with blasts of icy air. Step through it.

In this world is much trouble. This world is broken. But I offer a new world to those who are truly mine.

Love God, and love others as yourself.

You Don’t Walk This Hard Road Alone

There is nothing in your life that is harder than what Jesus faced. He understands our sorrow, our pain, our loneliness better than we know ourselves.

The Lord promises that He won’t leave you.

He will never forsake you.

This world is difficult but trust God. You aren’t asked to walk this rocky road alone.

With His help, you can step through the hardship and the pain. With His help, you will heal and overcome.

Prayer for Strength in Grief:

Heavenly Father, thank you for the strength you give us to overcome hardships, including the pain and heaviness of grief. Please remind us daily of your presence and your healing touch. Amen.

For other grief resources, see the Grief Resource page on this website. Also, Kathy has written a book, Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

Kathy Brasby lost her husband of 32 years in 2022 and is still learning the path of healing as she trusts God to comfort her.

How to Let God Hold You Through Grief

How to Let God Hold You Through Grief

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)

Tears Can Lead to Healing, Not Weakness

When grief tears at your heart, God promises to hold you close.

You grieve, but you will never forget your loved one. When tears come – and they will – let God hold you close.

Tears come because of love. Let regrets and loss flow freely. Memories crowd your mind, but see them as gifts you were given.

You were changed by your time with your loved one. The tearing apart in death is like a knife driven deep in your heart.

Honoring the One You Loved

Don’t let the pain overcome you. Instead, remember the courage and the faith and the kindness of your loved one. Recall what you loved about that person.

If tears come, let them flow. But let them also be tears of healing as you lean into God’s presence.

How God Holds You Close in Grief

Imagine God holding you close and stroking your hair, whispering words of love and comfort.

Healing is carried to you by God’s kindness. You will bear scars, but you will walk again.

Trust God to carry you in His loving arms as you move forward in your journey of healing.

He will never fail you.

A Prayer For You

Heavenly Father, there are times when we ache in our loss. And some days are better than others. But we trust Your promises of love and comfort. We believe Your words of healing and of holding. Thank You that You are close in our pain, in our tears, in our grief. And thank You for the newness You promise us. Amen.

For other grief resources, see the ​Grief Resource page​ on my website. Also, I have written a book, ​Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope​, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

Kathy Brasby lost her husband of 32 years in 2022 and is still learning the path of healing as she trusts God to comfort her.

Why Grief Isn’t the End of Your Story

Why Grief Isn’t the End of Your Story

 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.  For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed.

Romans 8:18-19 NIV

When Grief Dulls the Music

Stop and listen to the breeze whistling through the branches.

Hear the music in the air? That’s creation singing praises to God.

In your grief, you may not have noticed the songs of praise. Loss can pull your ears into dullness.

For just a moment, step into the melody of new life.

Taking Halting Steps in a Broken World

You may stumble as you grieve. You will limp in pain, but keep taking steps.

God’s plan was never for humans to suffer death, but in the brokenness of this world’s rebellion, it happens.

You live in a broken world, and hard things come.

Search for hope despite shattered places.

Discover joy among fallen rocks.

Uncover purpose each morning as you choose to depend on God.

Let God Renew You

There is newness in each day.

Grief seems to have splintered your life, but grief doesn’t have the last word.

Our Heavenly Father does.

God gives new life and new strength.

Along with creation, listen to the music in the air and remember the Lord’s love for you.

Let Him renew you.

A Prayer For You

Father God, thank You for Your healing touch on our lives. You know the pain of grief, yet you draw us into your new life and into your beautiful creation. You promise to renew our heart and we are grateful for that hope. Amen

For other grief resources, see the ​Grief Resource page​ on my website. Also, I have written a book, ​Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope​, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

Who Carries You When Grief Becomes Too Heavy?

Who Carries You When Grief Becomes Too Heavy?

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted

    and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:18 NIV

The Mountain of Grief

Grief is like a vast mountain, with boulders of memory behind and jagged rocks stretching ahead. But God is there.

It’s okay to pause, to catch your breath in the shadow of His wings. You don’t have to rush or strive in your own strength. God invites you to lean on Him.

Pausing in the Shadow of His Wings

Yes, this journey is hard. But trusting God provides hope. Don’t give up.

The Hope Found in Trusting God

You are not alone in your pain. God sees your heart, and He draws near to the brokenhearted. His gentle hands heal.

Allow God to lift you over the boulders and guard your steps. His arms never tire, and his love never fades.

Carried by Unfailing Arms

Keep climbing this mountain. With God’s help, you can heal. In his embrace, you will find the strength to rise one step at a time. His compassion is more than enough for your journey.

Steps Toward Healing in His Embrace

Lean on God and keep walking.

Prayer for you:

Father God, sometimes our pain is overwhelming, and we want to escape it. But there is healing in your presence, and we are grateful that there is healing in Your presence. You know our hearts, and You provide the strength we need to take more steps in our healing journey. Thank you for Your mercy and Your love. Amen.

For other grief resources, see the ​Grief Resource page​ on my website. Also, I have written a book, ​Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope​, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.

No Bowling Balls, But Your Robot Vacuum Is Fine

No Bowling Balls, But Your Robot Vacuum Is Fine

I’ve flown three times in the last year, which included my adventure with TSA and the protein powder. You can read that story here.

When I learned that there was a TSA app that might give me the inside info for my next flight, I was all over that. Maybe I could avoid getting patted down again.

And down the rabbit hole I went, opening the list of what I can bring. I was thinking twenty to thirty items on their list.

Oh, foolish me. There are almost two hundred. I think.  I didn’t count.

Did you know you can take artificial skeleton bones in your carry-on bag and your checked bag?

Love the Lanes?

No bowling balls or bowling pins in your carry-on bag. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anybody try to bring on a bowling ball or bowling pins. Maybe I need to fly more.

Speaking of common sense (or Captain Obvious), dynamite is out both for your carry-on and your checked bags. Same for fireworks.

And don’t let your kids bring a foam toy sword in their carry-on bag. Do they hope that cuts down on sibling skirmishes?

Waiting On Burgers

No hoverboards. Hummus is OK, but ice picks are not. No word on cheeseburgers.

You can’t take a kirpan in your carry-on bag even though it’s considered an instrument of mercy, grace, empathy, and goodwill. It still looks like a sharp dagger.

No realistic replicas of explosives in your carry-on or your checked bags. Rocks are OK.

You can carry on your vacuum robot, but don’t even think about bringing the airbag out of your vehicle.

Inviting Rosie

I did notice there was no comment about protein powder. I’m flying in a few months, but I’m considering skipping the protein powder and bringing along Rosie the robot vacuum instead.

TSA says she’s safer than I am with a scoop of whey.

"Escape: A Beyond the Last Breath Story" by Kathy Brasby, featuring a young boy sitting alone in a dark, blue-lit cave.

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