So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Tears Can Lead to Healing, Not Weakness
When grief tears at your heart, God promises to hold you close.
You grieve, but you will never forget your loved one. When tears come – and they will – let God hold you close.
Tears come because of love. Let regrets and loss flow freely. Memories crowd your mind, but see them as gifts you were given.
You were changed by your time with your loved one. The tearing apart in death is like a knife driven deep in your heart.
Honoring the One You Loved
Don’t let the pain overcome you. Instead, remember the courage and the faith and the kindness of your loved one. Recall what you loved about that person.
If tears come, let them flow. But let them also be tears of healing as you lean into God’s presence.
How God Holds You Close in Grief
Imagine God holding you close and stroking your hair, whispering words of love and comfort.
Healing is carried to you by God’s kindness. You will bear scars, but you will walk again.
Trust God to carry you in His loving arms as you move forward in your journey of healing.
He will never fail you.
A Prayer For You
Heavenly Father, there are times when we ache in our loss. And some days are better than others. But we trust Your promises of love and comfort. We believe Your words of healing and of holding. Thank You that You are close in our pain, in our tears, in our grief. And thank You for the newness You promise us. Amen.
For other grief resources, see the Grief Resource page on my website. Also, I have written a book, Cutting Through Despair: Dare to Hope, which explores stories of people overcoming hardships as they trust God.
Kathy Brasby lost her husband of 32 years in 2022 and is still learning the path of healing as she trusts God to comfort her.